Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Wise Up

By Siri McGuire
Recently, I’ve been reflecting on the differences between the concepts of knowledge and wisdom.  To those of you in senior lit. this might sound familiar. This blog might seem somewhat out of place from the other winter themed Newspaper blogs this month, but this prompt from senior lit. got me thinking how to apply this concept to high school life.

Now I can give you the standard dictionary definition of wisdom and knowledge that we’ve all heard 100 times, so I’ll give you what pops into my head when I think of them. Knowledge, in my mind, is equated with facts, statistics, the ability to solve math problems, remembering historical dates, and yadda yadda yadda. It does not usually require you to search your soul and evolve as a person to truly understand, it just requires you to remember. Not that this isn’t important, it’s just half of the equation.

The other half is wisdom. Wisdom meaning that you’ve taken the stuff you’ve learned, practical, vocational, and/or academic, and you think about what it means. About yourself, about life, about who you want to be as a person. What you want to do better. Wisdom is not blindly reciting statistics or facts; it’s being able to take what you know and truly understand a situation in whatever context it’s in.

Okay! Time for a little social experiment. You ready? This might make you uncomfortable, but that’s the point. This is a total, true to life application of this idea.

Right now, think of a person that for whatever reason, you absolutely can’t stand. Somebody that just grinds your gears, rubs you the wrong way, or really fulfills any standard cliché for describing somebody that annoys you. Got it? Okay.

Now think: what do you think of them in terms of?  What do you think of when you think of them? The way they talk, the way they dress, the friends they have, an off-kilter laugh, an odd mole, that they show up to class late, or a story you heard about them?

These things are your statistics on the person, and as we can all admit, some of them may or may not be actually true. Nevertheless, these statistics represent what your knowledge is of this person, from what you’ve observed and gathered, true or not. Many choose to stop the process here, wanting to believe that truth lies on the outermost surface of a person, which I’m sure we can all testify usually isn’t true. Believing this is simpler and takes less effort, certainly. We all do it now and again, and it isn’t a crime.  But there is a responsibility that comes with knowing that your “statistics” on another person is only half of the equation, half the process.

If you are willing to take it a step further, continue.

Congratulations! You’ve made it to the next level! *Mario 1-Up noises chime in the distance*

So, with this person still in mind, I want you to think again about wisdom. The second half. Displaying wisdom in this situation means taking your basic knowledge of the person and assigning causes and human value to it. In essence, what makes this person the way that they are? Take what you know to be true about your own life, your knowledge your own circumstances, and apply it when you think about this person. There’s a lot more going on than what is always visible on the surface of any given person’s life.

Taking time to think about what is going on below said surface is not only practicing wisdom, but also basic human kindness and empathy, which can go a long way, especially for people who need it. When you begin to see the world through this lens of empathy, it’s very difficult to make it go away, and that’s a really good thing. Your word will be used in the direction of good, and not in a way that is mean to hurt another person.

One last thought to leave you with. This is a quote that has somewhat haunted me for the past several years ever since I heard it.

  “Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.”

                                                                                                                                -Eleanor Roosevelt

Which one of these do you want to be? Stay wise, CHS.

 

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